• Gen Kanai

    September 17, 2008 at 3:51 am

    This look is very popular in many parts of Asia (Vietnam, Thailand, Korea, others too.)

    It is completely incomprehensible in the West where the image of handsome is Brad Pitt or Leonardo di Caprio.

  • phauna

    September 17, 2008 at 8:12 am

    Leonardo di Caprio is a girly man, though.

  • sheerblade

    September 17, 2008 at 9:19 am

    Heh, you should look at some Visual-kei bands you’d have a REALLY hard time telling man from woman.

  • Jamaipanese

    September 17, 2008 at 3:35 pm

    the look is one thing…but the movements and voice is another…

  • gbrgn

    September 17, 2008 at 9:26 pm

    man thats what I told my bud in Japan after seeing too many girly looking guys… he told me this…

    “you’re just jealous because they get the girls…”

    and you know what? japanese girls like the look….

    … i’m too westernized because it just creeps me out.

  • lol

    September 18, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    i am from asia too i think it is too gay.

    i guess japan is just unique.

  • Brittany

    September 25, 2008 at 6:11 am

    I think they are gorgeus! Yum yum!

  • Abby

    March 29, 2009 at 4:36 pm

    I agree, Brittany. 😀 I love guys that look like this, and I’m a Westerner. At first, it creeped me out a bit, but the more I see ’em, the more I like it. 😛

  • Jim

    August 24, 2009 at 3:19 pm

    Brittany and Abby, I find it interesting that you are attracted to those feminine looking/acting men. I am a Westerner with Western ideas so the concept of straight women finding ostensibly gay looking men sexually attractive is puzzling to me.

    The only frame of reference I have would be to equate it to western men finding women who look and act like men to be sexually attractive. Such men might be better off looking for other men. Unless you girls are gay or bisexual then I am at a loss. Could you or any other females who find these guys romantically attractive explain the attraction to me please?

  • jojie

    October 30, 2009 at 2:43 am

    they look gay to me…I’m asian 😀

  • Akiko

    December 12, 2009 at 4:03 am

    They are pretty creepy looking – i dont like them

  • Kneecap

    January 5, 2010 at 6:09 am

    I always hear this from my Western buddies. We aren’t Japanese, so trying to rationalize what is sexually appealing to Japanese from a Western perspective is fruitless.

    I don’t get it but obviously a lot of Japanese women do. People have to get over it and flat out “stop hating”.

  • elfboi

    September 12, 2010 at 5:51 am

    I’m quite effeminate myself, but then again, I’m bisexual and find gender rather irrelevant.

  • 4045195916

    June 14, 2011 at 5:23 pm

    There’s always a different style of handsome in the east and the west. I think you have to be into or living in that culture to understand. I’m an asian american living in the US and I actually find them extremely attractive, especially popular jpop idol groups such as Arashi, KAT-TUN & NEWS.

    None of my friends in the US understand why they look so girly but I personally think it’s just that depending in different cultures, there are different versions of “hot” and “cute”.


  • Mike

    September 3, 2011 at 1:31 pm

    I’d tap any one of them. They’d have to be able to tell an Austin Seven from a Morris Eight if they wanted me to keep ’em, though.