Sex in Japan – Part3

Let’s finish the articles about Sex in Japan:

Some more data from Anan . Remember that data is from girls between 20 and 50 years old.


More info about how to give pleasure to your boyfriend.


Where do you practice sex?
31% – Love hotels.
35% – At home.
30% – My partner’s home.
3% – Hotels.
1% – Other.


Ar you satisfied with your sexual life?
41% – Is not bad.
31% – It’s OK.
10% – I’m satisfied.
5%- I’m not satisfied.
12% – I’m very satisfied.
1% – Others.

Now some sections with questions, very similar to those that we can find in any western magazine. I just translate the titles so you can get a sense of what are they worried about.


Being sexless is bad for your health?


Is it rare that you want to practice sex everyday?


Is it necessary to talk while having sex? (Typical question from everywhere in the world!)


Do men dislike girls that do not practice fellatio.

But let’s go back to the first chart I showed at Sex in Japan – Part 1, so we can continue discussing the reasons why Japanese are always the last in sexual rankings.

The first to reasons were: they see their partner more as a family member than a sexual partner and they are pretty fond of affairs. Another big reason is that Japanese are very very humble people, they never exaggerate what they say and they even reduce the importance of their merits. Western people as me like to exaggerate data, “Hey guys! yesterday a saw a chocolate cake in a bakery that it was at least two meters long!” when a Japanese would say “By the way, yesterday I saw a cake that was pretty big and looked like kind of delicious”. For sex questions is the same, if a French guy fucks 100 times a year maybe he will say 125, but a Japanese would say 75. Some people exaggerate, some people just do the other way.

Some other reasons are: Japanese women starting to join the labor force, stress in general all around Japan and mainly in big city, they consider sex as a routine and they sometimes they feel that is just annoying, Bayer survey says that even nowadays 10% of the people thinks that sex is just important for making kids.

I think I talked about many of the main reasons, showed data, charts and surveys that should help you to create your own opinion about Sex in Japan. If you are not tired you can continue reading: Timesonline article, a book about the sexless phenomenon and great article at Stippy.com.

61 Replies to “Sex in Japan – Part3”

  1. do anybody in Chian read these articles? i think it’s pretty hopeful to understand sth,,

  2. A very interesting commentary on Japanese culture. I think that the popular conception of Japanese males is that they are oversexed. Frankly I prefer having sex 2 or 3 times a day if I have the right partner. 🙂 Maybe I’m oversexed. Hmmm.

  3. I think stress is a big part of the problem. Japanese people work long hours, and many men don’t help with the house work. Tired people are not very frisky. Also, I think women everywhere are less interested in sex then men, unless they are trying to get pregnant! There’s a joke: How do you cure a woman of nymphomania (wanting to have sex all the time)? Marry her! You never see the female pigeons harassing the male pigeons.

  4. Hi, I am asian muslim, tall and hansome in age of 35. I am planning to sattle down in japan and start my own buisness. For this reason seeking marriage with Japanee lady. Pls drop me your detail with your contact number.

  5. I want to know if having sex is nessecerly inside the marraige in japan, or it can be between unmarried couples, if the later is happened, how does the comunity about it, do they act that this is normal, or the comunity refuse it and perefer the marriage affairs.

    pleas answer me.

  6. I am really interested in having sex and exploration with Japanese women, I am a married man of 40, living in the UK. Want to develop love affair clandestinely. Send email to
    o.my38@yahoo.com

  7. why do you all search for sex partners on the internet, you guys make me SICK. find a girl/boyfriend and have sex all you want. sickoes

  8. Well… I understand the results of the surveys and everything and your explanation seems to be totally correct!

    My theory is that humans are the most populous species on Earth precisely because they enjoy sex. It just makes them want to keep doing it and consequently reproduce like crazy!

    Anyway… every culture has their own way.

  9. “My theory is that humans are the most populous species on Earth”

    Your theory is based on a false premise.

  10. ah, very intressting too read about, it is very diffrent from many other countrys i think. i have a japanese girlfriend soo it is very intresting everything about japan. But the sex part was fun to read about. Oh yeah, we have had sex before marry soo thats no problem at all. but to have children you must first be married.
    thanx for the information, and very intresting pictures xD

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  12. I think stress is a big part of the problem. Japanese people work long hours, and many men don’t help with the house work. Tired people are not very frisky. Also, I think women everywhere are less interested in sex then men, unless they are trying to get pregnant! There’s a joke: How do you cure a woman of nymphomania (wanting to have sex all the time)? Marry her! You never see the female pigeons harassing the male pigeons.
    please send images

  13. hm… I don’t really care about sex. I mean, I am not interested in it. I like having a boyfriend, etc. but I don’t care if we have sex. It kind of makes me uncomfortable. Maybe that’s how it is for a lot of Japanese girls I think. We are more interested in having fun, going out and doing things, etc. Sex is uncomfortable and feels kind of like a chore.

  14. Hi, I am asian muslim, tall and hansome in age of 27. I am planning to sattle down in japan and start my own buisness. For this reason seeking marriage with Japanee lady. Pls drop me your detail with your contact number my no 08037471852 and 08020136599

  15. Hi, I am asian muslim, tall and hansome in age of 35. I am planning to sattle down in japan and start my own buisness. For this reason seeking marriage with Japanee lady. Pls drop me your detail with your contact number 08037471852 i live in japan

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